Tuesday, January 25, 2022

 I call it... GOING NO CONTACT LIKE A MF BOSS!! 

It’s what you MUST do when dealing with toxic people. 

You MUST stand up for yourself.

You MUST love yourself enough to cut out the cancerous tumor. 

You MUST be brave & bold! 

Otherwise, they will take full advantage of you. 

#breakupwithabuse

This is why I moved 3 states away. I had to get as far away from the toxic cycles as possible. 

One of the best decisions I’ve ever made too!



 It was 2013 and I was just rebuilding my life after leaving my 22-year toxic relationship.

My son still wasn’t talking to me 😢 

So what do you do to help heal? You get a meaningful Tattoo 🤷‍♀️ 

this tattoo represents all three of us.

My daughter

My son

And myself

This quote is from Dog the Bounty hunter. It’s a show we all used to watch as a family and one of my son's favorite shows.

Each flower represents each one of us.

The pink flower with sun rays coming from behind it represents my daughter.

The blue flower with a raindrop/teardrop falling from it (can’t see it in the pic) represents my son.

And the red flower represents me.

Overlapping them both. 

Protecting them and loving them ALWAYS 🌺

What is your MOST MEANINGFUL Tattoo?


 “When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.

The misinformation will feel UNFAIR, but 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐭, trusting that other people will eventually see the 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡, just like you did.“
#truth Lay low and let them hang themselves. (so to speak)
When you know who you are you no longer feel the need to defend yourself from people like this.
Lesson learned 🙂