HA! so I created my own Opt-in page only problem is...I made it to a post not on an actually page on my website lol

I will figure it out...eventually:)-

http://denisedominguez.com/this-is-why-you-are-here/

Now to make a video and post that to my website, I am so freaking busy and I am WAY out of my comfort zone but I know it is all worth it! And I really can not wait for the anticipation of wanting something more for my life to subside because I'm scratching all over and my thoughts run wild and its not easy to get them under control, it takes a lot of practice. But I am getting there day by day. It helps that I have very few distractions now that I have decided to stop dating and stop all of my social callings lol (bars and live bands)

So anywhos it FREEZING here in NC! Holy Crap! it was 12 degrees when I woke up this morning and its only suppose to warm up to a whopping 30 degrees. REALLY??? I am such a Florida girl I swear! I will take the heat over the cold any day! I would trade this pea coat and layers of cloths for flip flops and a tank top in a NY minute lol

Gina and me on New Years Eve! I think we were drunk already lol 

Oh and yes, I am a redhead now;)

Hey, hey,hey!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Hope you all had a great one...I for one am very glad it is over lol I love the holidays but since my kids are all grown up its just not the same:(
I used to sneak presents under the tree and set out cookies & milk for Santa and make sure that he ate at least half a cookie and drank some of the milk hehe..but mostly it was the excitement and the child like imagination of Christmas that was so special for me to witness in my children's face! Just writing about it now I am getting that fluttering feeling in my heart. LOVE LOVE LOVE being a Mom!! It is truly the best job ever and its true, time does pass so quickly and before you know it they are walking across the stage graduating and being so independent...whaaaaa:((((

Anywhooos I have some exciting stuff lined up for 2015! I am kicking off the new year with a blog tour this Saturday 1-10-15 and a book release on January 28th  yayyy me!! My coaching business is evolving into wonderful and meaningful things. Are you following me on Twitter and FB? I have a business page for divorcees and post some funny shit on there! haha because I can, and I will. Sometimes you just have to laugh it off right? So yeah, find me on FB and Twitter and like my page I am just over 1030 likes for it and it is growing everyday!

Oh and I am revamping my website to have an opt in page so people can opt in and get all of my sick humor in their email. I will limit that to once a week unless someone begs me to do more! haha

Helloooooooo.... doing this  http://www.yourownuniversity.org/upcoming-workshop/workshops-denise-dominguez/ in less than a half hour! So excited to talk about how to survive the holidays single!! Workshop will be about 90 mins long. I've been single for four years now and yes I miss the family stuff that I used to do but I really don't mind being single during this time. My kids are older now anyway so it's not like I would be taking them for Santa pictures lol 

Anywhoos I went to a "meet up" meeting last night. Great stuff, this is me going out of my comfort zone again. I went to a strangers house and met a bunch of people that I have never met before. And I had a great time! I almost backed out at the last minute because I couldn't find the house and I wasn't sure where I was going but I reminded myself that I would be giving into my insure self and I'm not that girl anymore! I'm growing and learning about myself everyday and I challenge myself everyday too. So I went and I'm so glad I did! 

Thank you for all of the visits to my website and comments too. I read every single one of them and I am in the process of recreating my website so I will have them posted at a later date.

Who's ready for Christmas?? I am almost there. This is the first year since I moved here that I am shopping for BOTH of my kids! That's right Tony too. I am Thankful for so many things this year but I have to say that the biggest one is that I have a relationship with my son again! He calls me to just talk, he talks to me about life, and last night for the first time in a long time he said...I love you Mom! I get so elated with joy when I hear this. Now in the past conversations I've been the one to say "I love you" first and then he would say it. Which is great! and I was totally happy with that, but when he says it first? Man....only a parent can understand that feeling. I'm on cloud 9!

2015 is going to be the turning point in my life! I can feel it. Here's what I know. My coaching business is going to take off, my personal life (love) is going to happen, and I'm going to run a half marathon!! HELLOOOOOO Yes me...run...a marathon! WHOA! Another thing that I would of never thought of myself doing but hey! I'm changing and for the better. This marathon comes from my business coach, she recommends it highly. It;s a confidence booster and it helps with your inner self talk which is a problem for so many of us and we don't even realize it. Self talk is something that needs to be worked on everyday. Like I said before hiring business coach has helped me in more ways than just business. If you want to know more about my business coach leave your email and I can give you her website. I've recommend so many people to her already I should be a recruiter lol
But it's true she is phenomenal and who doesn't want to get to 300k in 3 years?? HOLLA~

Well, I think that is all for today...

My...My...My... how times have changed! I haven't blogged in so long and so much has happen since my last post! My last post was on Jan. 2, 2014 well shortly after that I hired a business coach. The program started in April 2014. One of the BEST DECISIONS I have ever made!

The reason I even started to blog was because I wanted to do something online but had no clue of what that was. So blogging was a start! I entered this program literally with blinders on. For some reason I trusted this women and her team of coaches. So here I am 8 months into the program and I am very proud to say that I am a DIVORCE COACH!! www.denisedominguez.com
Yeah...me! Never in my wildest dreams would I think this is where I would be in life but here I am. I have launched a tele-summit with 21 guest speakers all telling their own divorce story and how they came through it successfully and made a business out of their pain. I made some incredible connections while doing the summit. I have been interviewed on "Hugs" radio and I am doing a workshop Dec 20th titled "Single for the holidays and loving it"
 http://www.yourownuniversity.org/upcoming-workshop/workshops-denise-dominguez/

I have put dating and the majority of my social life on hold for a while. Number one: I have no desire or time to entertain a guy right now. Through this coaching program I am learning so much about myself and how the universe works. Right now I am attracting the "same" guy and that's not what I want. But I've learned recently that you attract who you are not what you want. So guess what! I'm working on me.

My relationship with my son has dramatically improved this year. My prayers have been answered! My heart is filled with joy and happiness every time I talk to him. My kids are my HEART! and leaving Florida and leaving him was so hard but very necessary at the time. My daughter and I are even talking about moving back to Florida and living close to my son. No one knows this yet.

So I wanted to touch a little on the two guys I was blogging about last year "T" and Greensboro.
First "T" well...he and I "got together" and never really talked since then. OH WELL! lol

Now Greensboro we've been in contact off and on since last year but it was strictly "business" we never had any intentions of making it anymore than that. But as I am growing and learning about myself I'm not even interested in that anymore. I've discovered I'm worthy! I'm worthy of having a man that cherishes me and wants me not needs me. A man that goes slow in getting to know me and before we take that step, he introduces me to his family. Anyway I don't want to give all of my thoughts away here.

Now I want to talk about Joanna and everything that happen last year. Joanna and I have grown to be close over the past year. She is a wonderful person with a good heart. She was in a very mental and emotional abusive marriage and she is learning about her self too. I help her a lot and even coach her. She had not been to Nicky's house for a very long time when just after Thanksgiving Nicky was having an "Ugly sweater" party and asked me to invite her. At first Joanna felt very uncomfortable and she was even crying. I told her if she felt that uncomfortable here then she should leave. She didn't...and I'm so glad she didn't and so very proud of her too!
She stayed and everything turned out okay!

My page views!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!! 
My page views are increasing and I am not even doing anything. That makes me happy!! I am thinking of doing all video posts but first I need to invest in a really good camera. Stay tuned for that one!

New Years was Fantastic!!

 We had to un-invite  Joanna because she is continuing to be cady and show her high school behavior by making up things and telling Gina; things like......She said that I refer to her as my best friend when we go out.
 #1 I do NOT!!!
 #2 even if I did why would she say that to my REAL BEST FRIEND???? (Gina)
 #3 her boys are CRAZY!!!! she had come over with them for Christmas and they were like two little ANIMALS!!!

 So with all of that together we (Nicky, Gina, Kristen & I) all collaborated together and said that it was better for her NOT to be there for New Years Eve!! Especially she was planning to bring her boys! We did this over group text and yes, our claws came out for a minute but more importantly our conversation was HILARIOUS!!!!

Next post will have pics of the group texting! Too funny not to post!!!
until then keep SMILING!!!