Helloooooooo.... doing this  http://www.yourownuniversity.org/upcoming-workshop/workshops-denise-dominguez/ in less than a half hour! So excited to talk about how to survive the holidays single!! Workshop will be about 90 mins long. I've been single for four years now and yes I miss the family stuff that I used to do but I really don't mind being single during this time. My kids are older now anyway so it's not like I would be taking them for Santa pictures lol 

Anywhoos I went to a "meet up" meeting last night. Great stuff, this is me going out of my comfort zone again. I went to a strangers house and met a bunch of people that I have never met before. And I had a great time! I almost backed out at the last minute because I couldn't find the house and I wasn't sure where I was going but I reminded myself that I would be giving into my insure self and I'm not that girl anymore! I'm growing and learning about myself everyday and I challenge myself everyday too. So I went and I'm so glad I did! 

Thank you for all of the visits to my website and comments too. I read every single one of them and I am in the process of recreating my website so I will have them posted at a later date.

Who's ready for Christmas?? I am almost there. This is the first year since I moved here that I am shopping for BOTH of my kids! That's right Tony too. I am Thankful for so many things this year but I have to say that the biggest one is that I have a relationship with my son again! He calls me to just talk, he talks to me about life, and last night for the first time in a long time he said...I love you Mom! I get so elated with joy when I hear this. Now in the past conversations I've been the one to say "I love you" first and then he would say it. Which is great! and I was totally happy with that, but when he says it first? Man....only a parent can understand that feeling. I'm on cloud 9!

2015 is going to be the turning point in my life! I can feel it. Here's what I know. My coaching business is going to take off, my personal life (love) is going to happen, and I'm going to run a half marathon!! HELLOOOOOO Yes me...run...a marathon! WHOA! Another thing that I would of never thought of myself doing but hey! I'm changing and for the better. This marathon comes from my business coach, she recommends it highly. It;s a confidence booster and it helps with your inner self talk which is a problem for so many of us and we don't even realize it. Self talk is something that needs to be worked on everyday. Like I said before hiring business coach has helped me in more ways than just business. If you want to know more about my business coach leave your email and I can give you her website. I've recommend so many people to her already I should be a recruiter lol
But it's true she is phenomenal and who doesn't want to get to 300k in 3 years?? HOLLA~

Well, I think that is all for today...

My...My...My... how times have changed! I haven't blogged in so long and so much has happen since my last post! My last post was on Jan. 2, 2014 well shortly after that I hired a business coach. The program started in April 2014. One of the BEST DECISIONS I have ever made!

The reason I even started to blog was because I wanted to do something online but had no clue of what that was. So blogging was a start! I entered this program literally with blinders on. For some reason I trusted this women and her team of coaches. So here I am 8 months into the program and I am very proud to say that I am a DIVORCE COACH!! www.denisedominguez.com
Yeah...me! Never in my wildest dreams would I think this is where I would be in life but here I am. I have launched a tele-summit with 21 guest speakers all telling their own divorce story and how they came through it successfully and made a business out of their pain. I made some incredible connections while doing the summit. I have been interviewed on "Hugs" radio and I am doing a workshop Dec 20th titled "Single for the holidays and loving it"
 http://www.yourownuniversity.org/upcoming-workshop/workshops-denise-dominguez/

I have put dating and the majority of my social life on hold for a while. Number one: I have no desire or time to entertain a guy right now. Through this coaching program I am learning so much about myself and how the universe works. Right now I am attracting the "same" guy and that's not what I want. But I've learned recently that you attract who you are not what you want. So guess what! I'm working on me.

My relationship with my son has dramatically improved this year. My prayers have been answered! My heart is filled with joy and happiness every time I talk to him. My kids are my HEART! and leaving Florida and leaving him was so hard but very necessary at the time. My daughter and I are even talking about moving back to Florida and living close to my son. No one knows this yet.

So I wanted to touch a little on the two guys I was blogging about last year "T" and Greensboro.
First "T" well...he and I "got together" and never really talked since then. OH WELL! lol

Now Greensboro we've been in contact off and on since last year but it was strictly "business" we never had any intentions of making it anymore than that. But as I am growing and learning about myself I'm not even interested in that anymore. I've discovered I'm worthy! I'm worthy of having a man that cherishes me and wants me not needs me. A man that goes slow in getting to know me and before we take that step, he introduces me to his family. Anyway I don't want to give all of my thoughts away here.

Now I want to talk about Joanna and everything that happen last year. Joanna and I have grown to be close over the past year. She is a wonderful person with a good heart. She was in a very mental and emotional abusive marriage and she is learning about her self too. I help her a lot and even coach her. She had not been to Nicky's house for a very long time when just after Thanksgiving Nicky was having an "Ugly sweater" party and asked me to invite her. At first Joanna felt very uncomfortable and she was even crying. I told her if she felt that uncomfortable here then she should leave. She didn't...and I'm so glad she didn't and so very proud of her too!
She stayed and everything turned out okay!

My page views!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!! 
My page views are increasing and I am not even doing anything. That makes me happy!! I am thinking of doing all video posts but first I need to invest in a really good camera. Stay tuned for that one!

New Years was Fantastic!!

 We had to un-invite  Joanna because she is continuing to be cady and show her high school behavior by making up things and telling Gina; things like......She said that I refer to her as my best friend when we go out.
 #1 I do NOT!!!
 #2 even if I did why would she say that to my REAL BEST FRIEND???? (Gina)
 #3 her boys are CRAZY!!!! she had come over with them for Christmas and they were like two little ANIMALS!!!

 So with all of that together we (Nicky, Gina, Kristen & I) all collaborated together and said that it was better for her NOT to be there for New Years Eve!! Especially she was planning to bring her boys! We did this over group text and yes, our claws came out for a minute but more importantly our conversation was HILARIOUS!!!!

Next post will have pics of the group texting! Too funny not to post!!!
until then keep SMILING!!!

T and I

I told T today that I do not "just" want sex and that I am ready to build a life with someone. I asked him..."know that you know this information do you still want to see me?" "or did I scare you"? and he relied "i'm fine" we continued to text as the day went on. We will see......stay tuned!

Continued post from Dec 20......

I am reading my post from Dec 20th and it says that I will explain in next post and then my next post is about being "single and dating" so I will now explain what a "Fun Friday" is and maybe explain what "the quay" is too. In our circle of close friends and family we have a lot of inside jokes. "The quay" comes from all of us doing and saying crazy things they would only happen in Fuquay Varina, NC we shortened that to "the quay"  Fun Friday is just a house party that we have on a regular basis (every Friday) unless otherwise told different. And if we do not have a "fun Friday" for whatever reason we have a "Sassy Saturday" which is drinking, hanging out, laughing. joking, g sometimes games, Lots of shots and just having FUN!! It's usually always the same people.
Sometimes a new person will come that one of us brings but we are a lot to digest so they usually don't come back lol and if they do, they are brave!! That is how Joanna (Jojo) became a part of us. Kristen brought her (they are neighbors) and she had such a good time she came back!

Now we all have our own relationships with each other. For instance, Gina and I have been best friends since 6th grade but I am also close to her sister Nicky. My daughter Sam is close to her Aunt Gina and will randomly hang out with her but not do the same with Nicky. Not that she doesn't love her it's just different stroke for different folks. Kristen is actually Nickys friend and Kristen and I had started to hang out at the clubs/bars. Then she brought Jojo. Now Jojo and I will go out every once in a while. Here's where the story gets interesting Joanna keeps implying that  her and I are "best friends" and she only says this to Gina. Well...this gets Gina going lol  I can't say anything to Joanna because that will makes things worse. Hers the last text I got from Gina.......LMAO! Your single white female made it a point to tell me how u refer to her as your best friend when your together. She really is crazy if she thinks she will ever compare to me or take my place! lol And after the way her kids act she had the nerve to say something about Gianni as she does!! She mentions my kids name again and I'm gonna flip on her!! lol Can't stand that HO!!

Okay so now lets get back to the Greensboro guy and T. Greensboro guy has not contacted me and I have not contacted him! Hope it stays that way!! DB!! lol
T and I have not stopped texting each other we are making plans to see each other ASAP!! Stay tuned!!

Single and Dating

This is just the beginning for me! I am soooo excited! Okay so, I'm totally single and I have been going through the stages of being single and discovering so many things about myself. So, through online dating I met this guy T and he was the first guy that I had kissed after leaving my husband. I was very nervous to say the least lol and he was ready to jump into a relationship with me and I was sooooooo not ready for this! So I ran away! Months later he called me and we talked and we have kept in touch ever since then.

Now I started dating again (online) and met this guy who lives in Greensboro. We hit it off! Our first date was really good we had a lot of chemistry! And he was a perfect southern gentleman. So after we discovered that we REALLY liked each other the sexting started. And our second date involved a hotel room. Yeah.....I know....I messed that one up! But we continued to text and talk and i'm getting the feeling that he is a drinker. Like an EVERYDAY drinker. Well, the first weekend that he doesn't have his girls (children) he doesn't ask to see me (weird) but whatever it holiday time and maybe he spent too much money I don't know!! But now comes the next weekend he is free and we make plans to see each other. Well.... he cancels.....okay but the next day Sunday when we were already supposed to see each other he is hunting! So, now I'm like okay this is BS. If  i'm already being put on the back burner than that just sets the stage.

 Getting back to T, while I was thinking damn this guy (Greensboro) is not showing an interest in me I message T on FB. He doesn't get back to me for a few hours but we start to talk.....and I tell him that I really needed a friend tonight to talk to and I was gonna ask him to meet me for dinner. Now it's Monday and T and I are still messaging and Greensboro guy hasn't even text me today!!!

Anyway this is the short version of a detailed story but I would like to here a guys point of view!

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